Who is a friend? Prov. 17:17 defines the need for a friend to stand with someone in the time of trouble. Jesus used the parable of the Good Samaritan (Lk. 10:29-37) to demonstrate that one’s neighbor is not just one who shows an interest, but one who is willing to sacrifice to assist someone in need.

            Brothers and sisters in Christ must be willing to sacrifice of themselves and their ministries in order to be real friends. Friendship must be determined, and then it must be demonstrated. Too many believers operate in a secular mindset. Friendship is only extended if it brings good things to the one who is offering it. As soon as your friend experiences a problem, the world says to cut him off. Many Christians are guilty of this and justify themselves by declaring the need not to embarrass the “work of God”.  In reality, they are worried about someone thinking badly about them. Pride then becomes the deciding factor. Is it not the “work of God” to help those in need? Does not the essence of Prov. 17:17 imply that one should stand with someone in friendship?

            We are not to be partakers of other’s sinful habits and actions. We must maintain personal holiness and strive to please the Lord first of all. Jesus is the prime example of a Friend. One person suggested that if we need a friend, then we should go out and be a friend. May we, by God’s grace, be faithful friends.